Picture this:
DEAR LADIES, you meet someone online, after a few furious texts via inbox or phone, he keeps pushing you to say you are in love with him or he is in love with you. That should be a red flag. Any person falling in love with alien pictures will never be satisfied nor settle down,it means more exploitation, more admiration more searching and goggling, but if he does that....that's another sign its a trap.You ask yourself hard questions. Who in their right minds falls in love with another person after 2, 3 days or even a week after meeting?.
ladies, stop thinking with your lusty minds. Unless you really want it and so you cant turn around and say you were used. You used each other. Who goes and have sex on a first date? where did 'public places' such as an eatery or even Uhuru Park go to? trust me, if a meeting venue is your house on a first date, Go knowing "i am going to have sex". Period. If on the other hand you think the relationship has potential, Then do not go to his house, and no, dont let him come to your house either. If he dont like it,just tell him, "it has been nice knowing you brother"..because he is not worth your time LADIES. That is because you need a man who has a good characters,values responsible,ready to fight for you and good moral ground, a man who has integrity and a man who watch your back. If he don't, he should go! A woman of integrity and who values herself wouldn't stood that low. unleashing the goods on the first date is extreme horniness, you gotta be a nymphomaniac to pull such.
There are good men out there who are worthy your time.My dearest mum taught me,"you meet people whose character admire/attact yours.if you are a cheat, you will meet a your shadow, and they will also cheat on you.
Bad Men who take good girls' emotions for granted spoil the good image of a few good girls left, while confused women who know that after meeting some stranger, making love must be on day one!!!!, are in for a rude surprise!!!how fast you give out kanyau will depend on what you expect from the relationship. If respect and honor are part of what you expect then itabidi you hold on to your goodies for what to you is reasonable time. However if that doesn't matter to you then no one is judging you ladies.go ahead but be prepared for anything. He will make an opinion and at the end he will choose how he treats you.
If a woman feels like it, she is very free, and so is the man..what is humiliating is character l have described above..man who eat up you, don't bother to even give you bus-fare and then block you on Facebook or block your cellphone number..that is a mind of a very sick man..there should be honor even among thieves.
its your choice how you want to be treated after that first sex encounter ,every decision counts..when you are too quick to lift them legs up, 50/50 chances are he might end up marrying you but be prepared to be called all manner of names because of that oversight view you as a(loose bitch)..i still maintain that you give it time. If he wants you, he will be patient, and when he gets it, he will respect you for good.
if you must be dumped, then let it be after you made him WAIT!!!. All in all some people are just lucky with love matters and some not so lucky. No formula. Whatever works for you, go for it ladies.
Am not being harsh but if you forget cash on your first date,at least carry common sense on such dates.period
Dear ladies,let me end by opening your eyes wide!!!the truth is hidden in knowing Jesus personally. And to know the purpose of something, we must refer to the manufacturer's manual; in this case the thing being #man and the maker being God, and the manual/manufacturer's booklet being the Bible.Have a blessed day people.
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This
country is in such a big mess because we( people of kenya) are not
demanding accountability from particular individual public/state
official for abuse of office and or facilitating, aiding or abating
violation of law. The
government through the ministry of Lands is responsible for title
registration and transfer of ownership from sellers to buyers. If the
government facilitated the transfers, and continued charging land rates
as has been alleged, then it is 100 percent
liable. This level of senseless vindictiveness must end if ordinary
Wananchi are to gain confidence in the government. I applaud the sober
leadership shown by Sen Sonko by stopping these illegal demolitions. Now
he should take legislative action to pass a law to deny these ignorant
ministers from destroying people's properties without due process in the
courts. A government democratically elected by the people is supposed
to work for the people, not to oppress the people with punitive and most
vindictive bonehead measures. There must be a better way than to
repeatedly destroy Wananchi properties while the corrupt, fat and stupid
bosses who sold public land are promoted to greener pastures to steal
more from the public,Now we should ask ourselves; Who signed the title deeds for the land in question?
That
land belongs to the ministry of agriculture. But corrupt mandarins in the Kenya ministry of lands changed the title & in cahoots with wheeler
dealers at the NSSF sold the land to NSSF. NSSF on the other hand sold the
land to Winners Chapel and other developers.
The church bought 15 acres of land and started constructing a mega
church. The church building is a work-in-progress, but the owners have
already infused KS.1B in its construction! How will they get a redress.
senator Sonko did what was supposed to be done. They should start by compensating
this people!
Away from land,Which officer authorized and signed official documents for the Anglo-leasing companies?
Kenya is also facing terrorism problems and the West is busy
evacuating its citizens.... but, blaming the West for not sharing
'intelligence' on terrorism is stooping too low to admit lack of
intelligence on our part as Kenyans... the very act of blaming the West
for our own failures is evidence enough that we are still slaves who are
addicted to being colonized.... diversifying tourism is a possible
solution but that is no solution in the short-term... threatening to
'import' tourists from China is a
populist and dumb reactionary tact devoid of any rational intelligence
... but, diversifying when you are actively chasing a huge population of
already existing tourists away is utter nonsense... furthermore, even
if tourism remained unaffected, it is not sufficient to shore up a badly
managed economy...
MISMANAGEMENT HAS NEVER BEEN SOLVED
BY POURING MORE RESOURCES ONTO IT but finding solutions to remove it....
for those who think CBK can save the falling shilling, let them know
that there is a limit upon which CBK can manipulate the currency... it
is not that CBK is more intelligent than the Central Bank of Zimbabwe...
when the economy fails, the currency falls... this is the natural law
of economics....
Can West be blamed for those dying of
hunger in Baringo?... well, not so, but another excuse has been devised
to blame the 'poor' season... 'poor' season is a natural occurrence
across the globe... how intelligent and wise a man is depends on how he
is able to learn and effectively take advantage of seasons to his
benefit... 50 years down the line, we cannot continue anchoring our
survival on erratic rains... well, the problem of starvation in Baringo
is not lack of food per se, but a problem of poverty... yes, poverty of
mismanagement and missed priorities.... if the government can release
1.4Billion kenyan shillings to ghosts, wouldn't this have been
sufficient to save people of Baringo who are contributors to this
1.4B?... no excuse whatsoever for government's failure....
