Picture this:
DEAR LADIES, you meet someone online, after a few furious texts via inbox or phone, he keeps pushing you to say you are in love with him or he is in love with you. That should be a red flag. Any person falling in love with alien pictures will never be satisfied nor settle down,it means more exploitation, more admiration more searching and goggling, but if he does that....that's another sign its a trap.You ask yourself hard questions. Who in their right minds falls in love with another person after 2, 3 days or even a week after meeting?.
ladies, stop thinking with your lusty minds. Unless you really want it and so you cant turn around and say you were used. You used each other. Who goes and have sex on a first date? where did 'public places' such as an eatery or even Uhuru Park go to? trust me, if a meeting venue is your house on a first date, Go knowing "i am going to have sex". Period. If on the other hand you think the relationship has potential, Then do not go to his house, and no, dont let him come to your house either. If he dont like it,just tell him, "it has been nice knowing you brother"..because he is not worth your time LADIES. That is because you need a man who has a good characters,values responsible,ready to fight for you and good moral ground, a man who has integrity and a man who watch your back. If he don't, he should go! A woman of integrity and who values herself wouldn't stood that low. unleashing the goods on the first date is extreme horniness, you gotta be a nymphomaniac to pull such.
There are good men out there who are worthy your time.My dearest mum taught me,"you meet people whose character admire/attact yours.if you are a cheat, you will meet a your shadow, and they will also cheat on you.
Bad Men who take good girls' emotions for granted spoil the good image of a few good girls left, while confused women who know that after meeting some stranger, making love must be on day one!!!!, are in for a rude surprise!!!how fast you give out kanyau will depend on what you expect from the relationship. If respect and honor are part of what you expect then itabidi you hold on to your goodies for what to you is reasonable time. However if that doesn't matter to you then no one is judging you ladies.go ahead but be prepared for anything. He will make an opinion and at the end he will choose how he treats you.
If a woman feels like it, she is very free, and so is the man..what is humiliating is character l have described above..man who eat up you, don't bother to even give you bus-fare and then block you on Facebook or block your cellphone number..that is a mind of a very sick man..there should be honor even among thieves.
its your choice how you want to be treated after that first sex encounter ,every decision counts..when you are too quick to lift them legs up, 50/50 chances are he might end up marrying you but be prepared to be called all manner of names because of that oversight view you as a(loose bitch)..i still maintain that you give it time. If he wants you, he will be patient, and when he gets it, he will respect you for good.
if you must be dumped, then let it be after you made him WAIT!!!. All in all some people are just lucky with love matters and some not so lucky. No formula. Whatever works for you, go for it ladies.
Am not being harsh but if you forget cash on your first date,at least carry common sense on such dates.period
Dear ladies,let me end by opening your eyes wide!!!the truth is hidden in knowing Jesus personally. And to know the purpose of something, we must refer to the manufacturer's manual; in this case the thing being #man and the maker being God, and the manual/manufacturer's booklet being the Bible.Have a blessed day people.
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